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Susan Turley pays tribute to Dr. Lawrence R. Gelman

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Good afternoon. I contemplated very deeply what I was going to share with you today. Dr. Gilman was a great man. His integrity was exceeded by none. He was a father, a husband, a grandfather, a physician, a leader and a visionary.

But to me and to the thousands of employees and medical staff here at DHR Health, he was our friend.

Friendship is defined by mutual respect, affection, trust and understanding. Dr. Gelman stood by our sides. He offered encouragement when we were troubled, and celebrated right alongside of us life's joys and accomplishments.

A friend is the family you choose. Dr. Gelman chose us, and we chose him.

We will deeply, deeply miss our friend.

Thank you.

Editor's Note: The above commentary was provided by Susan Turley, the President of DHR Health. He gave his tribute to Dr. Lawrence Gelman at a Memorial Service DHR held at Edinburg Conference Center at Renaissance on Jan. 23, 2026. 

Obituary 

Here is the official obituary for Dr. Lawrence Richard Gelman:

Dr. Lawrence Gelman, who made McAllen, TX his home for the last 39 years, passed away suddenly on January 19, 2026, surrounded by his family.
 
Dr. Gelman was born in Chicago, Illinois on October 22, 1951, to Sidney Gelman and Zina Adler, both Holocaust survivors.

A gifted anesthesiologist and critical care specialist, Dr. Gelman devoted his career to caring for patients and mentoring generations of medical professionals.

He was a visionary and trailblazer—strong-willed, passionate, and relentlessly ambitious—who unwaveringly pursued his dreams despite the many challenges and obstacles he faced. He worked tirelessly toward the causes that mattered most to him, including fighting for the undelivered infant, advocating against injustices faced by others in this country and around the world, preserving and celebrating art through his Gelman Stained Glass Museum, and pursuing numerous other ventures.

He will always be remembered for his love of God and family, his adoration of his wife of 46 years, his pride in his children, his generosity to friends and strangers alike, and his wit and brilliance.

He is survived by his wife, Maria Esperanza Gelman; his children, Alexander Gelman (Miriam Gelman), Zina Bash (John Bash), Sharon Gelman, and Rachel Gelman (Rudy Mireles); his grandchildren, Mabel, Diego, Miguel, Maria, and Benjamin; and his three younger brothers, Eddie, Howard (Sophie), and Steve (Arlene).
 
Editor's Note: Visitation was held on Wednesday, January 21, 2026 from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m, at Kreidler Funeral Home in McAllen. Graveside Service took place on Thursday, January 22, 2026 at 9:30 a.m. at Temple Emanuel Cemetery on South Ware Rd., in McAllen. In lieu of floral tributes, the family kindly asks that memorial contributions be made to CHABAD RGV, 601 Dove Ave. W, in McAllen.